Evelyn and Chad: That Ish Cray!

As we all know Evelyn Lozada formerly known as Mrs. Ochocinco was allegedly head bunted by her now estranged husband Chad. They say the fight took place at their Miami home over a receipt for condoms she found in their trunk.  According to reports Chad has been ordered to stay away from Lozada until there is a resolution to this matter. The blogs are blowing up about him calling, texting, and DM’in her via twitter to give the marriage another chance but she is fed up. She released a statement saying that “domestic violence is not okay and she hopes he gets help.” There are also reports claiming that Lozada was tricked into marriage and that there was abuse prior to the wedding. Allegedly Chad had an affair with a groupie named Bianca prior to the marriage.  This mistress was supposedly using the car Evelyn brought for him as a gift for travel.  It has been cited that Chad took her too expensive hotels for rendezvous but never his home.  The basketball wives star has filed for divorce stating the marriage is not fixable.Chad has been dropped from the Miami Dolphins, lost endorsements, and the reality show is now canceled.  Blogs are saying Chad is more alone than ever.

My thoughts on this is that Evelyn was aware of what kind of man she was dating let alone marrying. She knew that he was the type of man who had a lot of women. To be honest not to say it is right for a man to cheat but in that situation he is not a normal guy. He is a sex symbol, football player, and he is seen in media a lot more than a regular nine to five man. That is why I can’t cry for these women on these shows because these men who they want monogamy from are constantly being tested everyday. Women are in their rooms, tour buses, and at the games. It is only so many times a man can say no and it is a lot of pressure for them. Also on basketball wives there is an episode were she agreed to his behaviors with other women long as he was honest. As for the fight there is so many holes. Like in a fight with your spouse who thinks to head bunt their mate? Maybe slap or punch but head bunt? That shit cray?! Chad is over six feet and Evelyn can’t be anymore than 5’4 so does Chad bend down to do it or were they sitting down? That is very confusing to even think about how it could have happened let alone what she said when that receipt found.

Lets be clear all of us have seen Evelyn in rare form on countless episodes of Basketball wives. I am sure she didn’t walk in the house with the receipt and ask him nicely Chad I found this receipt for condoms why is it here? We’ve seen how she solves problems. Evelyn throws bottles, glasses, jumps on tables, and our favorite curses to high heaven to get her point across. This victim role she is playing is a little hard for me to believe. The rumor mill is saying she set him up for a fall to boost her sales for her new book “The Inner Circle” which was released June 12th 2012 and honestly I can believe it. If she was thinking another book about the Hoe Chronicles was going to sell she was sadly mistaken. Karin already beat her to it with two best sellers about her whoredom. Most importantly she doesn’t want to admit she was “loose” so how can we say the source is creditable. We all saw how she handled that with Kenya of season 4. Poor Kenya got a bottle thrown at her. Well I guess Kim Kardashian can say her alleged fake marriage lasted longer than this one. Evelyn has filed for divorce after 41 days of marriage. I hope Chad prevails through this and if he does have a problem than I hope he gets help. I hope she gets help for her anger. For the record I am sure this video will help Chad in court. This is the video where she says its OK for Chad to see other women. Just go 36:19 seconds to her telling him to buy condoms and tell her about his cheating.