Is Your Sex Fresh? I Got 5 Tips To Help!

In a relationship sex can become a little routine so I have some tips to keep things new and interesting.

I found this interesting article from redbookmag and they had some pretty dope concepts for keeping the sex fresh in a relationship.

5. Keep your panties on.

Back in high school, you probably had rules for how far you’d go: under the shirt, over the pants, and so on. Well, the teenage you was on to something. “It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other over your underwear, teasing and stroking through the fabric,” says sex coach Patti Britton, Ph.D. “You’re building up the anticipation, so when you finally do have skin-on-skin contact, it’ll be that much more explosive and exciting.”

4. t’s all about the tongue.

When it comes to performing oral sex on him, don’t focus only on porn star-style suction. You can do a lot with just your tongue, I learned at Babeland‘s “Oral Sex Basics: Fellatio” (Babeland’s most popular class!). Flatten your tongue and pretend you are licking a delicious ice cream cone. Then try the “pointy-tongue” technique to stroke up and down and side to side. Do different strokes and touches, like flicking your tongue over the head, and see what kind of response you get.

4.Frankly, the missionary position is the position least likely to bring a woman to climax.

But there is a subtle adjustment you can make that can increase your chances of having an orgasm: the coital alignment technique, or CAT. Have your partner move his entire body up about two inches. Your partner’s pubic bone will rest on top of yours so that the base of his penis presses on your clitoris. This position provides continuous stimulation of your clitoris during intercourse, increasing your chances of having an orgasm.

3. They touch their own bodies.

Women who love sex are comfortable with masturbation. It’s how they learn about their own bodies, about what they like, and about how they can reach orgasm quickly or slowly (depending on their mood). Since most women don’t reach orgasm via intercourse alone, those who feel free to touch themselves during lovemaking control their erotic destiny: They know they can come whenever they want, and that makes them more confident and relaxed lovers.

2. The New Sex Rules

Old rule: Both partners should be equally active in bed.

New rule: It’s okay to relinquish all control sometimes — or to totally take over.

Yes, both of you should be getting equal satisfaction from your sex life, and, yes, men love it when you take an active role in your own pleasure. But that doesn’t mean that every time you make love it has to be exactly 50/50. After all, sometimes one of you is just too beat or burned-out to have the energy for a night of vigorous sex, but you can still lie back and have some fun, points out Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of The Perfect Orgasm.

1.Wild in the Wild: Is it okay to romp in a field?

“In 25 years of practice, I haven’t seen a patient with any sex-in-the-grass-related complaints,” says gynecologist Suzanne Merrill-Nach, M.D. Nature enthusiasts face a slight (but avoidable) risk of poison ivy or oak, allergic reactions to other plants or insects entering places they shouldn’t. “And if you’re considering sex on the beach, watch out for friction burns from the sand,” says Suzanne Merrill-Nach, M.D. Another consideration: “Almost every state has laws against indecent exposure,” says Sandor Gardos, Ph.D., founder of mypleasure.com, “though it really depends on how flagrant it is, and it’s fairly easy to talk your way out of arrest or a summons. Use your judgment.” So, pack a blanket, be discreet and go enjoy the great outdoors!