Plus Size: How Do We Get What I Want?

I find it that a lot of people say what they want but when it arrives they are still not exactly sure. Sometimes situations or occurrences make our decision making a little cloudy. I am here for the plus size woman and I want to make sure she gets to where she needs to go.

So let’s talk about career, family, and money these are the major three things any woman wants. How do we get there? How do we make the right choices for us that are healthy and not destructive? No worries I am here to help!

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Career

When you were in high school your guidance counselor would ask you that age old question “Where do you see yourself in 10 years?” Now to a seventeen year old that seems like a galaxy a way, but when you graduate some how you go to sleep that night and wake up at the end of your 20’s! Ha!

You are looking around the room asking yourself what have I done with my life beside party, meet a few people, and take some courses? If you find yourself in this situation it’s never to late to change your life and the direction it is going. First take a look at what your good at and brings you joy. Once you have that figured out find a way it can work for you monetarily.

Now everything your good at may not be in today’s job market but this is an opportunity to be creative. Find a way to make it work so you can start a cash flow. Anything worth having comes from hard work and dedication. Once you have those things, you must study. Just because you have your degree doesn’t mean you no longer have to learn. Study different ways to make your career choice work for you. Find resources that are available to stay on top of your game. These things alone can help you make money from your target community. The best job you can have is the one that makes you smile.

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Family

This is a tough one but I have some ways to help you get there. Family is tricky because it is all about finding elements in someone else that fits you. When looking for a mate you always want to put first the things that are most important to you. By this time in your life you should know what you will or will not tolerate. The way people treat you are a reflection of what you allow. Make sure when selecting a mate that them being in your life brings out the best possible side of you. Your mate should compliment you not insult you.

Know that when you are selecting a mate that there is nothing you can’t have. Understand no one is out of your league. Know your worth and always use to your advantage. Never settle for less. Always go for what’s extraordinary. During the selection process understand that the person you chose may not meet every requirement on your list. If they meet the majors and are willing to work on the rest, you got yourself a keeper. Now I’m not saying to hold out for the perfect mate but I am saying make sure you chose wisely.

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Money

In order to keep money and spend wisely you need to understand your budget. Saving is a huge part of spending money. I know you are confused but let me explain. When you save money it allows you to be prepared for anything that may come. Whether it is an unexpected bill or maybe you need to help other family members etc. Look at the money coming into the household and pay attention to how you spend. Then make small adjustments.

For example if you eat out every night that can be very expensive. Not to say that you can’t eat out anymore but limit it to the weekends and cook for the rest of the week. The money you will save and healthy food you will be eating is priceless.

Most people that work a 9 to 5 have a side hustle. Anything you good at? Maybe jewelry making, writing business plans, cooking, hair styling etc? Start a side business to add extra revenue to the household. The money you were spending for groceries could go into your savings account. The side business can balance your main source of revenue. Money management is a very important skill to learn with career and family.

I hope these tips help you in some way and that you use them positively. The most important strategy in keeping all these things going is happiness.

Stay Positive

Jersey