RiRi “Chris is the Love of My Life”

OWN’s show Oprah: The Next Chapter sat down with Rihanna for an intimate interview about her music, lifestyle, and the domestic incident with R&B sensation Chris Brown. Rihanna took Oprah around Barbados and revealed her more sensitive side. It was refreshing looking at her as a person inside rather than her raunchy, weed smoking, bad girl persona. Although Oprah talked about her music she couldn’t wait to talk about the incident that happen Feb 2009. Oprah asked her what her relationship with Chris was today along with was he a true love? She answered he was the love her life and that they are working on their relationship as friends. I honestly could relate with Rihanna for once just because someone hurts in any form doesn’t mean the love escapes you. If it did it would be so easy to recover from a break-up. Honestly I feel that night the fight took place they were both out of control.

Does this give Chris a pass for hitting her no but if we were constantly labeled for mistakes we made in the heat of the moment we would all wear a jackets that we wouldn’t like. No one congratulates him for getting help nor did they say oh look how well he is doing after the incident. What media does is constantly say he is a “monster” and make jokes that he is a woman beater. He has a lot of strength and courage to continue music knowing what people will say despite his efforts to show and prove that he is not an abuser but someone who made a mistake as a kid. I think if he has a respect for her and she has a respect for him that’s awesome it’s their healing process no one else’s. It is hard to make the heart understand how you need to leave someone not because you want to but because of a situation. They broke up for their careers not for them. If they were the average couple they would have received help and worked it out privately. It is hard living a life where everyone has an opinion but that is what that life comes with. Here is the clip you let me know your opinion…