Will Celibacy Fix Keyshia Cole?

Keyshia Cole has taken a vow of celibacy after dealing with the troubles of her broken marriage. 

The All In reality star recently had a social media blow out with her estranged husband over her son’s birthday. During the horrid exchange she revealed one of Daniel Gibson’s martial indiscretions. Keyshia explained Daniel’s cheating was in their home and in their bed.

Cole admitted this after Gibson came to his own defense for being attacked over a party video Keyshia posted. Keyshia’s video claimed that Daniel found those things to be more important than being a good dad.

Since the incident things have gone further south for the couple. Keyshia in a recent interview with VLADTV confirmed her vow of celibacy and her new priorities. Cole believes that the sex is too much right now and just wants to stay clear of what’s important.

Which is her career, God, and her son. She further explains that she will remain celibate for quite sometime. She said she is looking for a guy in a new relationship to be the same way.

I think that taking a vow of celibacy can be a great thing when it’s not used as a defense mechanism. If you realize that the sex in your life is not being processed correctly emotionally then you should.

If you feel that when you are having sex that you can’t seem to think properly in all other areas of your life than you should. The issue with celibacy comes in when you are using it because you think it will ensure a better outcome or because your angry.

Being angry about past occurrences and not really understanding your role in them doesn’t help you progress while abstaining. You need to fully understand why you are doing this and if doing this will help you attract what you need in your life despite men. I also think when you decide to abstain that you should seek out therapy.

Getting down to the bottom of why you react in these certain ways are important to enlightenment and change. Withholding from sex is only half the battle. You have to start taking a hard look at yourself to understand why these things are happening. It is sad to see this situation play out between Keyshia and Daniel.

I hope they are able to find a way to co-parent that doesn’t involve social media during a disagreement. Do you all think that celibacy will fix Keyshia or does she need more?

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