You Can’t Change Him Girl!

I am so sick and tired of women trying to change their man into what they want them to be. You can’t change anyone who doesn’t feel there is error in their own life. Why are so many women trying to change these trash dudes into prince charming?

If you want a man who is ambitious and wants the finer things in life you as a female must have the proper resume to attract that type of man. You have to be about your money, career, and lifestyle to be in the running for such a catch. No man wants a bum bitch. He wants someone who is driven that can drive him.

If you are dating someone who is on the block selling street meds but you really want someone who can write the prescriptions he isn’t that dude. It would be a complete waste of your breath trying to change this guy into the guy you want.

If this dude cheats on you multiple times and you keep taking him back under the influence that he will change you can’t get mad if he cheats again. He has developed a pattern that works for him and you. I cheat, she yells, but she takes me back. You can’t try to put demands in later in reference to a guy’s behavior if you were alright with it from the beginning.

If a dude has a girlfriend and you continue to see him under those circumstances you can’t be upset because you have caught feelings and now want him to be committed to you.  Side pieces need to be clear on what their role is, let me further explain. A side piece doesn’t get a phone call everyday she is subject to text.

She doesn’t get kissed on the mouth or is called by any endearing names because that is reserved for his main girl. When a dude uses his side piece for other activities other than blow jobs in the whip or quickies at the motel 6/her house he may take her out. She only goes out on days that don’t matter like Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. The main girl has all other days reserved.

Side pieces get no Holiday treatment or days spent unless the main girl is out of town. In this instance the side piece is a fill in by default.

Women you all need to get it together with the choices you all make when it comes down to choosing a partner. I think it would save us a lot of trouble if we didn’t try to change the man we are with but to just select a better one in the first place. Let’s start by loving ourselves more so we can want more from the men we chose.

I have heard it all and I am so exhausted with telling these females that it is better to be alone than to deal with someone who is not going to treat you the way you want to be treated. Ladies stop settling for men who are garbage and start taking action for your own happiness. When shopping for a man always buy quality and not the cheap shit because we all know it will only rip in weeks.

Remember if the person in the situation with you is not willing to make you comfortable make them uncomfortable and leave. Are you going to stop now?